TYPES OF ORGASMS
C
clitoral
These orgasms are often felt on the surface of the body, like a tingly feeling along your skin and in your brain.
V
vaginal
These orgasms are deeper in the body and can easily be felt by the person penetrating the vagina because the vaginal walls will pulse.
A
anal
Before the big O, you may feel an intense need to pee, but the contractions definitely won’t be felt around the genitals. Instead, they’ll be around the anal sphincter.
x
combo
When the vagina — particularly the G-spot — and the clitoris are stimulated at the same time, it tends to result in a more explosive movie-style orgasm that may have convulsing or literally ejaculation, so female ejaculation is not a myth
Let’s talk about the clitoris
get wet
Once the clitoris begins to get wet — or after you add lube because not all vaginas can get wet on their own — apply faster and harder pressure in a repetitive motion.
Getting better
Top off this motion with heavy pressure as the orgasm begins to intensify the feeling. Back down a little if the clit is too sensitive.
Varies by person
If this is enough to get you off, that’s awesome! But no worries if it doesn’t since this is not the be-all and end-all.
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Vagina & G-spot
Vaginal orgasm is often misconstrued as the “best” way for women to orgasm, but it’s often the most difficult for ladies. Instead of a penis, try fingers or a sex toy. Insert the fingers or toy into the vagina and make a “come hither” motion toward the belly button.
There’s a point of pleasure on this wall called the G-spot and when you hit it with regular, strong pressure, it can lead to orgasm. Stimulation of the G-spot is also the way to lead to female ejaculationTrusted Source, as it stimulates the Skene’s glands on either side of the urethra.
Aim to use fingers or a toy for penetration instead of the penis.
Mimic the “come hither” or circular motion, rather than an in-and-out movement.
Repeat motions that feel good so that the feelings will build up.
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Exploring the anal orgasm
Anal orgasms are much more common in men because of the prostate, but can also be achieved simply by rubbing the outside of the anal opening as well as stimulating the inside of the anus with a finger. When it comes to anal sex, please, please, please use lube. Butts don’t naturally produce lubricant and the skin around the area is very prone to tears, which can lead to unwanted infection.
If you’re looking to return the favor with your male partner, stimulate the prostate by gently inserting a finger straight forward and massage the gland.
Going for the combo and erogenous zones
In order to achieve a combo orgasm, combine clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time, either in parallel or opposite rhythms — whatever feels best for you or your partner. This is also the most common way to achieve female ejaculation because the clitoris is stimulated and the G-spot or Skene’s glands are engaged.
Finally, erogenous zone orgasms are achieved exclusively through a lot of experimentation. You may be able to orgasm from kisses on your neck, teeth on your nipples, or fingers on the inside of your elbows. The best way to find your erogenous zones is to use a feather or another light external object and take note where you feel the most pleasure.
Develop your anus
Nipple stimulation, clitoral stimulation, vaginal thrusting… Combine all that you can imagine. Dance in orgasm once more.
